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| screengrab from Blue Valentine |
There is a certain level of maturity required when getting married. At the very least, the couples should have an understanding of the lifelong commitment they will undertake.The marriage advice coming from their own parents and other married friends may have a big impact on what values they will set in their family life, but it does not mean it should be followed rigorously. Your parent's marriage is not perfect, they also have they're own flaws no matter how happy they always look. Or if you came from a broken family,you should never ignore the lessons from their failed relationship. Do not fall into the trap of believing in the marriage myths sets by our predecessors. Here are seven of them:
1. Never go to bed angry at your spouse. We can be too tired or stressed to deal with the situation right away. Sometimes it is best to settle our emotions first before dealing with the issues the next morning. I know some relationships which regretfully ended just because the argument heated up and both the couple's emotions got out of control. What started as a petty disagreement ended in a shouting match.
